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you reminded her so much of your father
 so you were banished and you wonder why you're so hypersensitive
 and why you can't trust anyone but us
 but then how can I begin to forgive her so many years under bridges
 with dirty
 water
 she was foolish and selfish and cowardly if you ask me
 I don't know where to being in all of my 50 odd years
 I have been silently suffering and adapting perpetuating and enduring
 who are you younger generation to tell me that I have unresolved
 problems
 not many examples of fruits of this type of excruciating labour
 how can you just throw words around like grieve and heal and mourn
 I feel find we may not have been born as awake as you were
 It was much harder in those days we had paper routes uphill both ways
 we went from school to a job to a wife instant parenthood